Why She Won’t Have Sex With You ( or won’t enjoy it if she does!)
May 12, 2008
In this article we are going to talk about another very sensitive subject: Your wife, girl or lover simply doesn’t want to have sex anymore. Second to financial disagreements, experts say sexual incompatibility is a major factor in unhappy relationships, and ultimately, miserable lives. There is nothing worse than not feeling wanted, desirable or "in demand" and a girl who turns the other cheek when you are in the mood is a major turnoff. Let’s take a quick look at a few of the reasons this is happening, so you guys can get back to having some hot and steamy summer fun..:-) Read on.
The Meds aren’t Magic
Want to know one of the MAJOR reasons women under 40 stop wanting sex? Medications! Want to know what kind? Antidepressants. With the explosive growth of medicines out there to treat depression, one of the tremendously under-reported side effects is their dwindling effect on the libido. ESPECIALLY a woman’s libido. If she isn’t happy OUTSIDE the bedroom, trust me, you won’t be happy in..:-)
Age is NOT an aphrodisiac
Unfortunately for many men, age has the nasty effect of making the love of your life more interested in what’s going on Oprah, rather than what’s going on in your libido. While this definitely varies from woman to woman, to deny there is a correlation between aging and passion would be silly. Many women claim their sex lives have all but fizzled out by their early 40’s…which is WAY to young if you are planning on a lifetime together.
Appreciation is IN.
Women are far more finely tuned when it comes to their emotions, and their sexuality. If your girl doesn’t feel wanted, needed or APPRECIATED…guess what? You are going to see a woman whose hormones aren’t jumping to dive in the sack with you. This is dead on easy to change…so if your woman falls into this category, consider yourself lucky and start letting her know how much she means to you in OTHER areas…she will most likely repay you many times over in those that matter most to you..;-)


