4 Stunning Facts about Women and Orgasms: Crying in Bed for All the WRONG Reasons
May 1, 2008
4 Stunning Facts about Women and Orgasms: Crying in Bed for All the WRONG Reasons
Women and Orgasms. Not many topics in the proverbial pantheon of passion is sure to cause more controversy, denial and surprising SILENCE than this very highly charged…but very secretive sensation, than this one. Let’s take another look at some of the surprising and I dare say…..absolutely stunning facts about women and their private pleasure.
We’ve all watched the scene with Meg Ryan & Billy Crystal showcasing her famous "fake" in "When Harry Met Sally". And most men are absolutely CONVINCED that their girl is properly satisfied in the bedroom and beyond. So the following facts may come as a HUGE surprise to the men reading this, and for the girls…well, it simply restates what we ALREADY recognize in your own very lackluster sexual escapades. So read on as we shed an unflinching light on one of the great "lies" that is quietly killing the romantic fire in many otherwise healthy relationships across the world. (And when you get a glimpse at some of these secret surveys…I’m sure you’ll agree!)
Liar, liar her pants are NOT on Fire
A recent study conducted of over 1000 American women acknowledged what women have shared privately for decades: 92% of women ADMITTED to faking orgasms just to get it OVER with. Ouch! Guys…your girl is willing to put on an Oscar worthy performance just to say good night..:-) That is not good news for the relationship in MANY other ways as well – no wonder there is a 50% divorce rate in the US!
I Hate to Break This, But….You Just Don’t Do it For Me
Other studies have indicated that over 70% of women have never experienced an orgasm at ALL during sex with their man. (Or for that matter….ANY man!) These women confessed that self gratification was the ONLY way they were able to fully enjoy the true joys of sex….not a good sign for you, fellas.
I Want YOU to Want ME. Make the First Move Too!
The good news is this: Over 50% of the women admitted they WOULD have sex more often with their mate and TRY to overcome the above…but were uncomfortable asking, or working through it…or even making the first move. This further reinforces what we’ve been saying to men for many months – COMMUNICATION is indeed key, and is the central and SEXIEST skill you may have in making your woman melt in many sensual and mysterious ways.
We Can Work it Out
And if the above wasn’t good enough news to share with boyfriends, husbands and serial daters everywhere, over 80% of the women asked said they were OPTIMISTIC that things would improve in the bedroom with their man. This means that she hasn’t given up QUITE yet…and considering that practice makes perfect, you’ve got some work to do! And this, I do believe, proves there is HOPE after all..;-)



