How to Get Back at Your Girlfriend: Simple Tricks to Amp up the Envy

April 13, 2008

How to Get Back at Your Girlfriend: Simple Tricks to Amp up the Envy This post is more for the guy who enjoys playing games when it comes to winning back the girl who has slammed the door and moved on leaving you with a broken ego and a hurting heart. If you aren’t the kind of guy who enjoys trying to amp up the envy on a girl who’s gone, these probably aren’t the strokes for you! But if you want to know what is going on in that mind of hers after she’s left, this will give you a little bit of extra insight, and some simple tricks to win her back. Some may be short, others a bit subtle, and I’ve tried to leave the outright SNEAKY stuff out ( email us directly for those..;-) but if your jonesing to get her back in your life, one or a combination of the below should work wonders in getting her green, and back in a jif! Enjoy! One of the biggest problems ALL of us face after a bad breakup is wallowing in regret, remorse and self pity. If your girlfriend has dumped you and moved on to more colorful pastures, it’s MUCH easier to sit around and pout and knock back a few cold ones thinking she’s coming back…then it is to get off of ASS and actually do something to fix it, and do it fast. Lets’ take a closer look at a few of the things you can do right now to turn a bad situation around fast…AND, if your lucky, have her coming back to you on bended knee for a reconciliation as well.

 

1) Don’t be a Wus. This is rule #1, boys. DO NOT call her, write letters or call her friends. Sure, this works great on TV and in films, and yes – if there are things that need to be said straight away, say them. But two weeks down the road, a month later, etc…getting a late night drunk dial is NOT going to have her change her mind, I promise you that. So spare yourself the HUMILIATION and save your cell phone minutes for someone who will appreciate it.

 

2) If you DO want her back…the very BEST way is to simply go out and play the field. Meet other women; go out to bars, restaurants and other places that are fun, social and entertaining. Hook up with old buddies you haven’t partied with in a while. ENJOY your life. This is contagious, trust me. And it gets around. If she’s not doing the same thing, she WILL eventually hear about your fun, fantastic new attitude…and she’ll wonder if it was HER problem all along. No matter how many times I hear people say – "I want you to be happy". Trust me when I tell you, they don’t. If they break up with you, they would prefer you are miserable, at least for a while..:-) Unless she is a saint, she is no different. Remember, it’s all about your mental landscape. What you believe, your inner world reflects your outer world. This is the true secret to not only getting over her fast…but getting WHATEVER you want after she’s gone as well. And remember, you got to believe in something, EVEN if it’s just getting out there and having fun.

Have a higher purpose to your life and get out there and make it happen. I’ve had friends waste YEARS of their lives trying to get over a lost love, or even thinking she’s coming back well after the tide has turned. Don’t be this guy. And don’t let it get that far, either. If she’s meant to be yours, trust me, using your good sense and exploiting the natural laws of human nature…you WILL get a second chance!

Written by Lanny · Filed Under MEN'S HEALTH 

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