Or…..simply boring her to tears? 

Here is a really good article below from WebMd on things that men commonly do wrong between the sheets, and the common misconceptions that we make in thinking we KNOW what women want in the sack?

Any of this sound familar to you?  I know I’m guilty of a few of these things…..and I’ve only managed to read the first 3..;-)

( Hey – only so much depression I can handle on a Friday night home alone with nothing but CNN to keep me company)

Check out the full story at the link below – and learn how to take YOUR game up a notch or two…and keep your girl coming back for more.  ( no pun intended..;-)

That’s because — after learning the facts of life — most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.

To help us with some sex tips, WebMD asked two acclaimed sex educators, Tristan Taormino and Lou Paget, to tell us what they think are the most common sex mistakes men make with women.Taormino is a prolific author, lecturer, and video producer. Her latest project is the Expert Guide educational video series from Vivid Ed.Paget is author of The Great Lover Playbook and other sex manuals, and she gives seminars nationwide.

Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She WantsMen often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they’ve done with other women. But women aren’t all the same.”You develop a repertoire as you mature sexually, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person,” Taormino says.That applies not only to sexual predilections, but also to relationships, she says. “There are women who can have no-strings-attached sex, and women who can get attached very easily, and then everyone in between.”

Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She NeedsSome women can’t have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator.”If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she’s not broken,” Taormino says.Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. “While you’re doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else,” Taormino says.

Sex – 6 Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex