How to Become a Player – A Simple Guide for Getting a Woman’s Attention in a Hurry
May 1, 2010
Are you trying to become a player? Do you leave the house on a Saturday night CONFIDENT that you’re going to get the girl…..only to come home empty handed on a regular basis? If you said yes…..the simple truth is, you are NOT alone. More men ask us questions about how to become a "player" than just about any other, and I’m guessing…..LOTS of the men reading this right now agree. I mean….who DOESN’T want to have beautiful women throwing themselves at you on a nightly basis? I know that I do…..and if you’re anything like me, so too do you! Here is a great guide from AskMen on how to become a lady killer in a major league way….and as usual, they are spot on with some super solid advice. Check out the full article at the link below!
The importance of a first impression cannot be understated, and if you wish to score a victory, you must not only grab her attention, you must also hold a woman’s attention. Believe it or not, this is where the vast majority of encounters fall apart for men. Up to this point, they’ve managed to net the requisite eye contact and body language from across the room, received a boost of confidence from a few encouraging smiles and have now embarked upon the actual conversation. They figure they’re golden — they relax. And before they know it, the woman has thanked them for the drink and disappeared into the crowd. What happened? Well, whatever just went down, it doesn’t have to happen.And the way to avoid this is to learn how to hold a woman’s attention.Find a good conversational spotIt’s impossible to form a connection when screaming in her ear over the driving music or attempting to have a one-on-one conversation amid a sea of shoulders. If you’ve successfully snagged her interest at the start, take the initiative and lead her to a place where the two of you can talk in a more agreeable setting. Make sure that you’ve established a positive foundation first, though; a woman will be more likely to agree to this if she actually wants to learn more about you.



