What Do Women Want in BED? (And Beyond)

February 12, 2011

What do women REALLY want from a man?

Do they want a man who has MONEY and power and prestige? Or do they prefer a man who is an AMAZING lover, well endowed and can make her WOOZY with want between the sheets? Or do women themselves even NOT know exactly what they really want from men…….and go back and forth between some weird and wacky variation of the perfect partner depending on the day?

The funny thing is, no matter how much study there seems to be in the sexual and societal wants of women, there are NO clear cut answers as to how WE should act, or what we need to be to attract the kinds of women every man wants to meet.

Check out this very interesting article on the SEXUALITY of women, what turns them ON – what turns them off….and the seemingly confusing symbols that many women send to themselves, when it comes to finding love, lust and happiness..:-)

All was different with the women. No matter what their self-proclaimed sexual orientation, they showed, on the whole, strong and swift genital arousal when the screen offered men with men, women with women and women with men. They responded objectively much more to the exercising woman than to the strolling man, and their blood flow rose quickly — and markedly, though to a lesser degree than during all the human scenes except the footage of the ambling, strapping man — as they watched the apes. And with the women, especially the straight women, mind and genitals seemed scarcely to belong to the same person. The readings from the plethysmograph and the keypad weren’t in much accord. During shots of lesbian coupling, heterosexual women reported less excitement than their vaginas indicated; watching gay men, they reported a great deal less; and viewing heterosexual intercourse, they reported much more. Among the lesbian volunteers, the two readings converged when women appeared on the screen. But when the films featured only men, the lesbians reported less engagement than the plethysmograph recorded. Whether straight or gay, the women claimed almost no arousal whatsoever while staring at the bonobos.“I feel like a pioneer at the edge of a giant forest,” Chivers said, describing her ambition to understand the workings of women’s arousal and desire.