3 Easy Ways to Turn ANY Woman On in Bed – Learn What Women Really Want When it Comes To Sex!
January 20, 2010
Who else wants to learn some super easy ways to turn ANY woman on in bed?
If you are anything like the vast majority of men who enjoy our articles on men’s health and sexuality, the simple truth is your BIGGEST challenge is learning how to become the best lover you can be, right? And these are skills that pay off BIG in the end! Women consistently rate an phenomenal sex life as one of the BEST reasons to stay with a man….even if everything else in the relationship seems to be falling apart!
So what are the best ways to keep her coming back for more between the sheets? Let’s look at 3 easy ways to turn any man into a more dynamic lover, often overnight!
The Art of Ambiance – Want to know the truth? Women rate ambiance as one of the BEST (and biggest) aphrodisiac’s, and you can easily create the sort of atmosphere that will drive ANY woman wild, with just a little bit of work! Good lighting and smooth music. Great food and even better wine! Sensual sounds and smells. You are really only limited by your imagination…and this is one DEAD simple way to amp up the energy in the room, and before you even make the first move boot!
Creative Conversation – Did you know that talking to a woman before, during and even after sex is one of the BEST ways to help her feel that the sex was good? It’s true…and in study after study, women report FAR better sexual experiences when there is some passionate conversation…..rather than having sex in silence! There are a lot of good reasons for this, of course….but all you need to know is that a little "dirty dialog" goes a long, long way in keeping her satisfied in the sack!
Fabulous Foreplay – Make mo mistake…the BEST way to pleasure a woman with erotic excitement is through foreplay. A good 7-10 minutes of foreplay before sex is considered one of the best ways to guarantee she’ll be able to achieve orgasm…and this is especially important for men who are average sized or below, do to the difficulty many women have achieving orgasm during sex with a less than powerfully endowed partner.
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Funny Things Men Do in Bed ( and the NOT so Funny Things Women Think About When We Do!)
May 9, 2009
Here is a pretty funny article about 40 mistakes men make in bed…..and the sort of unfortunate side effects that happen when you screw up in the sack!
Don’t think you make any of these? Think again! Most of us have made at least ONE of these sex “sins” at one time or another…..and if you ask my girlfriends from days gone by, I’ve made at least half that I can remember ( and probably the other half that I can’t..:-)
Check out the full story after the jump – and let us know some of the worst “sins” you’ve made in the sack….and how they’ve come back to bit you in the ass! ( no pun intended..:-)
1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes herfeel like you’re paying by the hour and trying to get your money’s worth bycutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form offoreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there’s adifference between being erotic and blowing as if you’re trying toextinguishthe candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
3) NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which yourakerepeatedly across your partner’s face and thighs. When she turns her headfrom side to side, it’s not passion, it’s avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when theygettheir hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them. 5) BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman’s nipples, then clamp down like they’retrying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can’t stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking yourtongue across them is good. Pretending they’re a doggie toy isn’t.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger andthumb like you’re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus onthe whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East andWest, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you’veignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. Sostart paying them some attention.
GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangledfingers and underpants. If you’re going to be that aggressive, just askherto take the damn things off.
40 MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHILE HAVING SEX WITH WOMEN
How to Keep Your Sex Life Strong Even AFTER You’re Married: Sex Tips For Men Who’ve Just Gotten Married
May 3, 2009
Who else has seen their sex life disappear after tying the knot? If you are anything like the vast majority of men who have become the punchline of the “what happened to sex after marriage” joke…..you’re probably finding that getting laid after saying “I do” ain’t all it’s cracked up to be right?
It’s true…and many JFM readers are amongst the many men who are finding having sex, POST white picket fence is far from fun! ( or maybe it’s still fun…it just isn’t happening nearly often enough!)
Here is a good article if you’re in that group…with some good, simple, ( and sensible) tips for any man who wants to spice things up with his spouse. Check out the full article at the link after the jump – and don’t forget to stop back by and leave us your comments!
The Reality of Married LovemakingWhen writer Miriam Arond and her husband, psychiatrist Samuel L. Pauker, M.D., surveyed hundreds of newlywed couples across the nation, they discovered that 85 percent had made love before tying the knot, yet the frequency and quality of unmarried sex had little to do with the reality of married lovemaking. Nearly half said that after marriage, they didn’t have sex as often as they’d like; 20 percent of new wives reported low sexual desire. For a fourth of the wives, sex meant painful intercourse or elusive orgasms, while 1 in 10 husbands experienced premature ejaculation, and 1 in 20 had erection problems.
What ever happened to athletic, swinging-from-the-chandeliers, “did-the-earth-move-for-you-too?” prenuptial lovemaking? The deep, mystical, Tantric communing of two spirits? Hours of Hollywood sex complete with mood music, flickering candlelight, and satin sheets?
Sex Guide for Newlyweds: Balancing a sense of intimacy and safety and security with a sense of unpredictability.”The excitement of getting married gives couples a hit of dopamine — a feel-good brain chemical that increases sex drive. For a few months after marriage, things may stay hot,” says marriage and sex therapist Pat Love, Ed.D. “And while you still love each other and feel passionate about each other, the dopamine does settle down. You’re back to real life. Your normal sex-drive set point kicks back in. Your expectations about married sex take over. It’s the perfect time to do the delicious work of deepening your sexual bond.
“”The challenge for couples is balancing a sense of intimacy and safety and security with a sense of unpredictability and creativity and eroticism,” says Barry McCarthy, Ph.D., a psychology professor at American University in Washington, D.C. “When sexual intimacy is strong, making love plays a healthy 15 to 20 percent role in energizing your marriage. The paradox is that when sex is problematic, it plays an inordinately powerful, negative role in new marriages.”Understanding the real sexual issues that newlyweds face can help you keep sex fun and fulfilling — now and for the rest of your lives. Experts say these hidden concerns can cool the hottest love life in the early days of marriage:
The Ultimate Sex Guide for Newlyweds: The Reality of Married Lovemaking | Marriage | Reader’s Digest
How to Tell if Your Man Boobs Are Showing – The Man Quiz Tells All
May 1, 2009
Only for JfM Readers getting a little LONG in the tooth..:-)
Funny little “quiz” that will tell you just how much of a P**sy you REALLY are……even if you think you’re still pretty hip.
I mean – a few of these are no brainers, right? But for some of us….the lure of the couch, some wings and NBA playoffs is a bit stronger these days than getting some digits at the Mojito bar down the street.
See where you fall on the getting TOO old to be hip quiz below:
You’re at a bar and your friend buys a round of tequila shots. You…(1) Down your shot, then your friend’s shot, then order another round.(2) Down your shot, thank your friend, and retire home for the evening.(3) Turn down the shot – you have work tomorrow.(4) This entire scenario is unrealistic – bars? What is this, college?
Your friends are camping out for concert tickets.
You…(1) Get a keg and a tent — you’re in.(2) Give them money and ask them to buy you a ticket(3) Pass — can you believe the crap those kids are listening to these days.(4) The music’s too loud, parking is a pain, and everyone’s on drugs. No, thanks.
Your friends are at the beach throwing the football around. You…(1) Organize a tackle football game – straight out of the Abercrombie catalog. But straight.(2) Just throw the ball around nice and soft — while enjoying the sun’s rays.(3) Don’t throw the ball at all — that’s a good way to get your trick shoulder worked up again.(4) Don’t go to the beach because sand gets in places you don’t want sand to be, and the sun is a big blaring ball of potential Melanoma beating down on you.
You’re house sitting in your friend’s ridiculous mansion. You…(1) Throw a house party that will make Kid N’ Play’s hair fall out.(2) Invite a small group of friends over for a dinner party.(3) You have a date with his comfortable couch, a glass of Chianti, and the latest Clive Clussler.(4) You leave early because you’re old and depressed and it’s strikingly clear you’ll never be able to afford a house of similar size.
You get a girls’ number. You…(1) Call her that night for a booty call.(2) Wait the allotted 3 days and ask her out for coffee.(3) Wait the allotted 3 days to call and plan a dinner.(4) Don’t call because phones are too confusing.
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Foreplay Advice For Shy Men: 1 Thing To Avoid With A Woman You Really Like (Don’t Do it)
November 14, 2008
Who else needs some foreplay advice? If you are like most men out there, you SHOULD be saying “ME” right now in a loud voice..:-)
But one of the most common questions we’ve been getting online has to do with shy guys who are worried they are NOT taking care of their women properly. A big part of foreplay is communication, and like it or not….if you are uncomfortable communicating with your partner it IS going to have an effect on your ability to stimulate her properly.
With this in mind, let’s take a quick look at the number 1 thing I’d like to see you avoid when practicing phenomenal foreplay fun! Read on..:-) Read more
Great Sex Ideas for Halloween: Trick or Treat! Drive Your Girl Wild With These Simple Tips
October 29, 2008
Okay guys, let’s talk about a few ideas for great sex on Halloween!
There is nothing more exciting than having a built in to dress up, get wild and explore your adventurous side than a holiday that encourages it..:-)
So if you are one of the millions of men and women who are looking for some easy ways to amp UP the erotic energy in YOUR relationship…..read on as we cover a few quick, easy and sexy ways to do JUST that…even if you are WAY past the candy eating age..:-) Read more


