How to Please Your Woman in Bed – 2 Titillating Tips for Turning Her Erotic Engine On OVERDRIVE!

August 19, 2010

Who else wants to please your woman in bed?  Do you often wonder if you are truly taking care of her needs where it matters most?  Does the idea of her faking an orgasm…..or even worse, fantasizing about other men in bed drive you nuts?  In this article we are going to talk about some super easy ways to drive her wild between the sheets, as well as 2 simple strategies for giving her OUTRAGEOUS orgasms, almost every time.  Sound interesting?  Continue reading as we take a closer look below!
 
Tip #1: Make it LAST (and she’ll LOVE you for it..:-)
 
The simple truth is, women have a much longer orgasmic cycle than men do.  It takes the average woman about 12 or 14 minutes to orgasm during conventional sex.  (interestingly……only about half of that if she’s by herself)  Many men, unfortunately…aren’t able to last long enough to please her the way she deserves.  The key then, to hot sex for her is stamina.  Staying power.  Did you know for example that many women NEVER orgasm from sexual intercourse alone?  The truth is…this is more often than not a function of sex that doesn’t’ last long enough, (and some size related issues) than it is your skill level, or sexual agility.  
 
Tip #2:  Foreplay is Fantastic (and more is ALWAYS better than less)
 
Did you know, that statistically, only about 11% of women are able to orgasm each and every time they make love?  About 90% of men can…and do.  Yet, over 90% of women can achieve orgams while alone…without a man to help her get there!  The reason?  Foreplay.  A woman’s body is uniquely designed to experience EXTREME bliss through very simple types of sexual stimulation.  And if you’re woman is one of the many who struggle to achieve climax on a regular basis through conventional sex, amping UP the amount of foreplay you practice is the FASTEST way you are going to find to drive her OVER the erotic edge….on a night in, night out basis.
 
The key takeaway?
 
Great sex for a woman comes down to SIZE, stamina and lots of erotic attention.  If you give her a little bit of each…..she’s going to be one happy woman between the sheets. (and of course, as a result….so TOO will you!)
 

How to Give Her an Orgasm in 12 Minutes or Less (She’ll Appreciate the Attention…..We Promise!)

May 10, 2010

Is your girlfriend, wife or lover able to orgasm during sex?

If not…..why not? When it comes to making a woman climax for a man, the statistics are SHOCKINGLY bad especially when you consider that close to 98% of men are able to orgasm EVERY time they have sex. (unless they suffer from a serious sexual dysfunction) So why the UNFAIR disparity between the sexes? And if you thought it’s NOT a big deal to her…..think AGAIN! Second to financial difficulties in a relationship, the BIGGEST cause of cheating, straying, divorce and unhappiness is sexual frustration for a woman.

With this in mind, and after writing hundreds of articles, and tens of THOUSANDS of words on better sex for both men and women alike, here are my 2 FAVORITE ways to give a woman an orgasm in a hurry. (even if you are not that good in bed to begin with..:-)

Fabulous Foreplay (You can actually CHEAT your way with this one)

The truth is, more foreplay is actually the easiest way to cure MOST problems between the sheets. Men who aren’t well endowed can use more foreplay to make her climax before sexual intercourse. Men who can’t LAST long enough can use foreplay to make her climax before sex as well. Want even MORE good news? Women rank a lack of foreplay as the #1 dissatisfaction they miss from satisfying sex.

And MOST women can climax with about 10 minutes of skilled foreplay from a man…..making it an easy way to take her of her without taking up too much of your time. (or hers..:-)

Time IS on Your Side

Most men climax FAR too quickly to take care of their woman. As a matter of fact…there is NO bigger complaint that women have about actual intercourse than a man who has NO sexual stamina to speak of. As a matter of fact, studies show that most sexual encounters only last about7 minutes from start to finish…and that includes getting undressed and flipping on SportsCenter when it’s over..:-) But truthfully…..if you can last 10 minutes or more….not ONLY will you make her ultra excited, you’ll most likely be able to make her CLIMAX very powerfully as well. Studies confirm that MOST women prefer vaginal orgasms we ONLY experience during intercourse, and the key to bringing her to a boil is staying power….pure and simple! (and if you let HER pick the position, I guarantee she’s going to be MUCH happier to boot!)

How to Become a Player – A Simple Guide for Getting a Woman’s Attention in a Hurry

May 1, 2010

Are you trying to become a player?  Do you leave the house on a Saturday night CONFIDENT that you’re going to get the girl…..only to come home empty handed on a regular basis?  If you said yes…..the simple truth is, you are NOT alone.  More men ask us questions about how to become a "player" than just about any other, and I’m guessing…..LOTS of the men reading this right now agree.  I mean….who DOESN’T want to have beautiful women throwing themselves at you on a nightly basis?  I know that I do…..and if you’re anything like me, so too do you! Here is a great guide from AskMen on how to become a lady killer in a major league way….and as usual, they are spot on with some super solid advice.  Check out the full article at the link below!

The importance of a first impression cannot be understated, and if you wish to score a victory, you must not only grab her attention, you must also hold a woman’s attention. Believe it or not, this is where the vast majority of encounters fall apart for men. Up to this point, they’ve managed to net the requisite eye contact and body language from across the room, received a boost of confidence from a few encouraging smiles and have now embarked upon the actual conversation. They figure they’re golden — they relax. And before they know it, the woman has thanked them for the drink and disappeared into the crowd. What happened? Well, whatever just went down, it doesn’t have to happen.And the way to avoid this is to learn how to hold a woman’s attention.Find a good conversational spotIt’s impossible to form a connection when screaming in her ear over the driving music or attempting to have a one-on-one conversation amid a sea of shoulders. If you’ve successfully snagged her interest at the start, take the initiative and lead her to a place where the two of you can talk in a more agreeable setting. Make sure that you’ve established a positive foundation first, though; a woman will be more likely to agree to this if she actually wants to learn more about you.

The Player: Hold A Woman’s Attention – AskMen.com

Got Sex Questions? We’ve Got GOOD Answers! Free Audio Below

April 8, 2010

 

JfM readers have questions………..and WE’VE got answers!

Check out the FREE audio below…….courtesty of Sexpert Kelly Connell……where she helps many JfM readers answer some of their most PRESSING questions about  sex, SIZE and women.

 

 

Don’t forget to check out Kelly’s NEW Ebook on Getting SUPER SEXUAL STAMINA…….in the Sack.

…….EVEN if you are a One Minute Man right now!  (special VIP prices for JfM readers – go grab it right now)

 

Why Do Women REALLY Cheat: The Top Reasons Women “2 Time” They’re Man (Surprising but TRUE!)

April 1, 2010

Why do women cheat? 

Have you ever had a lover, spouse or partner "2 time" you?  It’s not a nice feeling…..that I can promise you for sure.  (I’ve had it happen……MORE than once, and it’s a sting that never quite goes away)

Here is the thing…..

Women are, by and large, pretty much monogamous creatures.  They truly CRAVE security in a relationship…and are not likely to stray without reason. 

The REAL reason women cheat?

  • Feelings of NOT being appreciated in relationship
  • Stress due to financial fights and issues
  • BAD Sex
  •  

And if you thought we were going to focus on the bad sex, you would be right..:-)

There are 2 reasons why women are sexually dissatisfied if you believe the majority of surveys

  1. Not enough foreplay…or attention to HER needs
  2. She’s not able to climax….simply because her lover, husband or partner isn’t able to make it happen

Want to know the truth?  The #1 reason most MEN are not able to bring their woman to orgasm, is due to the fact that they simply don’t have the stamina….or staying power to service her needs, or her sexual response cycle.  Need more hard facts?  (no pun intended..:-)  According to a large popular sexual survey done in 2009, most sexual encounters last about 7 minutes from start to finish.  Yet just about every sexual study of women acknowledges they need about 10 minutes of stimulation to achieve orgasm.  The numbers don’t add up…and the simple truth is, men who LAST longer in bed are almost always far better lovers as a result.

The BEST piece of advice I can give you if you are worried about the fidelity and faithfulness of your woman is this….

Take care of her needs where it counts…and she’ll be as true as they come.  But if you aren’t sexually satisfying her now….it’s time to START.  (and the sooner you do..the better off you’ll BOTH be, I promise!)

 

2 Ways To Last Longer in Bed: You CAN Get Super Stamina in the Sack (These Really Work!)

April 1, 2010

Are you finishing too fast? 

Are you worried your girlfriend, wife or lover is secretly wishing for a better, more skilled and longer lasting lover?  I really don’t blame you.  Early orgasm for men is one of the BIGGEST problems that many of us face….and unfortunately, for many men…it only gets worse over time.

Here are 2 things you can do to IMMEDIATELY last longer in bed….regardless of how fast you finish right now.

 Strengthen Your Pubecocous Muscle

This may be the BIGGEST key to a permanent improvement in sexual stamina…and not 1 in 100 men have even ever heard of it..:-)  The truth?  Kegel exercises are a well known way to scientifically strengthen the PC muscles in the pelvis, well known to control and regulate ejaculatory control.  Learn this ONE technique…and you can add 200% or MORE to your staying power in just a few short weeks.

Train Your Brain

The truth?  You can actually RE train your brain to respond differently to sexual stimulation…and sensitivity.  Now…this can take some time, but many experts (including myself) believe that premature ejaculation is a LEARNED behavior.  For example…many men learn early in life to ejaculate quickly from self stimulation…just because they are trying to get it over fast, or are afraid being caught, etc.  This "teaches" the sexual response cycle to quicken….and ultimately, subliminally…..creates a learned behavior of achieving orgasm quickly from stimulation.  (this CAN be overcome with some pretty easy methods)

Lastly, remember….

That PE is NOT a disease.  It doesn’t need to be "cured" per se…but rather, treated through exercise and improved information.  (and regardless of what you hear elsewhere…..that is the truth!)

 

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