2 Surprising Reasons a Man Will be BAD in Bed! (The Weird Truth About Men Who Finish Fast)

August 25, 2011

Who else is worried that they are NOT as good “in bed” as they know they should be?

Do you avoid intimacy? Worry about getting too close to a new woman, simply because you fear it’s going to end in embarrassment or feelings of failure? Do you sometimes see SEX as a challenge, or something you look to avoid rather than embrace?

The truth is, you do NOT need to buy into, or believe in the “secret society of shame” that claims far too many men.

You do NOT need to believe that sexual stereotype that all men are virile, confident and capable of “sexual acrobatics” and super stamina is true. (because it’s not)

And ironically, what many men do NOT know, is that simply focusing on the areas that you are insecure, and unconfident CAN lead to an avalanche of issues you can’t even begin to count. (yet are all fairly easily to avoid as well)

With that in mind, let’s look at 2 very simple reasons why men underperform in bed, (and beyond) that MOST men will never consider:

Filed Under: Your Uncontrollable Urges (And Un – Sympathetic Sex!)

One of the most surprising facts about sex and performance to most men is that there is A LOT about your sexual “skill” that is completely OUTSIDE of your conscious control. As a matter of fact, contrary to the control you have over lots of other parts of your body (and other voluntary muscle movements) your penis really DOES have a “mind of it’s own”.

The male anatomy is regulated in part by the sympathetic nervous system, which operates at a level beyond conscious thought, awareness and choice. (which is a big reason many men find themselves getting excited for no reason, or experience nocturnal emissions, and the like)

(The best way to overcome this issue is ironically a new age idea that’s been practiced for thousands of years. Meditation, or visualization, seems to be a great way for many men to improve sexual stamina, and performance as well)

Filed Under: The Devil in your DIET

One of the BIGGEST reasons many men suffer from sexual dysfunction of all types and stripes is literally in the very food that you eat. High blood pressure, for an example can restrict blood flow to and through the corposa cavernosa, which can lead to a total breakdown in performance AND lead to other sexual problems as well. (such as PE, or sexual stamina issues)

A surprising remedy you MAY want to try if you find yourself NOT able to last long enough sexually satisfy your partner? Eating foods high in anthocyanin, and phytonutrients like salmon, deeply colored fruits and vegetables, fish oil, avocados, spinach and more can do AMAZING things for you (and for your bed mates) while keeping the rest of your body in tip top shape to boot!

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Women, Sex and Body Language

April 5, 2011

 What do women REALLY want you to know about their sexual wants, needs and DESPERATE desires…..?

Can her body language tell you more about what she’s thinking than her mouth does?

And how can you be SURE she wants you, without doing anything overly aggressive, or obnoxious or even misreading her sexual signals altogether?

In today’s update, we talk SEX with Kelly Connell, our favorite SEXPERT as she shares some inside sexual signaling secrets that women WANT you to know, but just won’t tell you.

(And thankfully for YOU, we will..:-)

Check out the audio interview HERE:

(you can read more about Kelly, at her website below:

http://kellyconnellconsulting.com/

 

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What Do Men Find Sexiest in a Woman?

March 28, 2011

What are the top 3 things that men find sexy in a woman?

Face?
Body?
Intelligence?

Or do some women have something “special” that’s hard to define……yet embodies “sexy” just the same?

For example?

I know men who are drop dead sexy…..yet aren’t really traditionally good looking at all.

I also know men who are handsome in a traditional sense, but who have the sex appeal of an old worthless toothbrush..:-)

What do YOU guys think is sexy? We’re curious….and taking notes! (and I’M curious too, for personal reasons as well..:-)

Share in the comments below if you dare!

Sexual Body Language and Women?

March 24, 2011

Hi – are women more prone to showing sexual interest through body language, or verbally? In other words, if a woman seems like she is really flirty with me in the way that she stands and so forth during conversation, but doesn’t really indicate interest verbally when I kind of “make a move”…..should I interpret that as her being shy and push forward, or should i just assume that i’m reading her body language wrong?

Common Sex Fetishes – What Turns Women (and Men) On During Sex?

March 21, 2011

Are sexual fetishes common? 

Are they normal?  Is it a sign that you are deviant if you like a certain kind of sex……or prefer a partner who looks (or does) things out of the ordinary between the sheets?

The wild and wacky world of sexual fetishes in an interesting one to study..:-)  What drives a fetish is often a difficult thing to track down.  For example,  recent girlfriend of mine told me about a man she dated a decade ago who insisted on wearing a diaper to bed.   What gives there?  How does that happen exactly?

Some people obsess about body parts……like feet or hands or even nipples…..and can only climax with those body parts stimulated.  Pretty interesting stuff, right?

Check out the Askmen list of 10 common sexual fetishes and see where you come in on the sexual scale of passionate or peculiar..:-)  You can read the full article at the link following the short excerpt below:

One guy told us that he loves tongue rings because after being pleasured by a girl who had one, he couldn’t go back to the “ordinary.” The feeling of the cool object rubbing against his penis while her hot mouth engulfed him “felt like heaven.

“Number 8Leather, rubber, vinyl, latexMen seem to love material; perhaps not the actual feel of it, but the rather pornographic quality it gives to a sexual encounter. Although men look to settle down with a sweet woman, most will forever have a fixation with that “bad girl” look.”Watching a woman move around in anything tight and shiny is a tease in itself,” says one gentleman.

Another man told me that his girlfriend’s entire wardrobe consists of latex and leather.

Number 7Domination and submissionTo my amazement, most women dominate and most guys submit.

Male obsessions – AskMen

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