JfM Magazine

I’ve got a bit of an interesting confession to make.

Over the last 3 or 4 days I have spent HOURS poring over some of the SAD sexual statistics that many men like you and I face with EACH and every partner we pair up with. Regardless of how much they may like us, women are simply not enjoying sex as much as we are. And all things being equal…they’d rather be SHOPPING! I don’t know about you…but kicks MY ego right in the heart. (amongst other places..:-)

Why is that you ask? It’s actually quite simple: As tough as we may talk….most men have absolutely NO clue how and what really turns our women on.

And I know what you’re thinking….not me, right? Well, I hate to break it to you, but LOTS of men are reading this very article and statistically speaking, up to 90% of our girlfriends, wives and weekend flings are FAKING it completely. Sad, but very true indeed.

I don’t have the space here to cover all of the survey results by MULTIPLE magazines, but the landscape is littered with men who aren’t getting it done. But one of the advantages I have in writing for a popular online Men’s magazine is I get a "unique" perspective on lots of the VERY erotic thoughts, desires, wants and wishes of women who comment on our site, or simply email us with recommendations. So let’s cover a few of the ways that women EVERYWHERE pretty much uniformly agree that you can take the whole thing much HIGHER…and in a hurry! Read on..;-)

Revealed: Patience is a Virtue

Alright, guys. This is a hard one for us, I know…but women LOVE a man who takes his time, and they tell us this over and over. Look, you may be thinking about Sports Center at midnight…but she really wants to LONG past 1..:-) You have to learn to slow down and let it flow slowly for HER pleasure. Remember, your girl’s body is completely different than ours is, and she NEEDS time to work up to the same level of orgasmic erotic energy that we do. You know what I’m trying to say? Just take her UP slowly…and in stages, sort of like this:

Explosive Orgasm Secrets Revealed: Only For Men Who Want More Sex – Part 2

In the first part of this article, we talked about ways to give your girlfriend more REASONS to want to have more sex more by covering the virtuous art of PATIENCE..:-) We are going to follow up with part 2 of this series, and take a good long hard look at some other approaches that women are DESPERATE for, and will ultimately get from someone else if it’s not you. And if you are the insanely jealous type like me…you probably find learning some new tricks a MUCH better option..:-) So Read on as we look at the art of the tantalizing tease..and the often awkward, but IMPORTANT area of making sure our own hardware is getting the job done well for her pleasure.

Revealed: The Tantalize of Tease

Every woman who has commented to us on our blog about how we are not getting the job done RIGHT, has either directly, or INDIRECTLY referred to the tantalizing turn on of a tease. The build up of sort of interplay between you before, DURING and after sex. Interestingly, many women said that the stuff that we do AFTERWARDS was really important to her orgasmic potential. If she’s your girlfriend, she’s got a good memory…and this is PART of the next night’s fun as well. (Note to self: Stop running to check out who is on Letterman..;-) Keep her mind and emotions ACTIVELY entranced with your powerful pull…and you’ve got a wild woman of orgasmic incandescence on your hands.

One of the VERY interesting things I personally learned in this research project is that women literally NEED a lot more time to get aroused to the point of orgasmic delight than we do. Even though she may APPEAR very turned on fast (and in all likelihood this is genuine) she simply can NOT have an orgasm as fast as we can. So simply integrating the art of making her "earn it" so to speak, will pay off dividends of DIVINE rewards for those willing to do the work..:-)